When Must We Marry?
"Prosperous is the one who takes lesson from the experiences of others." Why are we moving towards a falling spot, witha greed and eager desire, when we can distinctly and vividly see others fallfrom there?
Now let us pay attention to two of their important books. Dr Khudakuf one of the outstanding psychiatrists and psychologists of the ex -USSR writers:
"It should be known that youth marriage recently are to be seen taking place all over the world. For instance, in our country (USSR) 50% of marriage take place among the youth who are no older than 22 years, and there are many husbands who are only 18 or 19 years old. In America, the average age of girls who marry has decreased to 20 years and fourteen million girls aged 17 also got engaged."1 Drs Hannah and Abraham Stone, two researchers, physicians and outstandings consultants for family problems in America, write in their book, which is written in a question-answer form between an engaged couple and their special consultant: - "Dr, should marriage be avoided when the man is not completely able to procure the family's expenditure?" "No, absolutely not. In my opinion, marriage should not be put off until the economic strength of a man reaches its peak. Youth reach the stage of physiological puberty before such time that they can completely procure their finances and economic sufficiency. Hence, there is no need to look forward for economic sufficiency. But it is better that both the husband and the wife work to secure their family budget. They must not wait till the husband's income is sufficient to meet the family's requrements."2 I invite researchers, those who are sensitive to the fate of society and the young generation and paretns to study the book "Marriage, the school of human making", written by Martyr Dr. Paknejad, vol.2.
1 "The bond of life" by Khudakuf, translated by Habibian, P.13, seventh edition.
2 Answers to sexual and marital problems, tanslated by Dr. Tarazullah Akhawan, P.14, 19th Edition.
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